How to Build a Generational Family: Lessons from Welcoming Our First Daughter

This past week, my wife and I experienced the incredible joy of welcoming our fourth child into the world—our first daughter. The excitement we feel is beyond words as we embark on the privilege of guiding her as she grows in her faith, develops problem-solving skills, and becomes a big thinker. As we prepare to build a generational family, this moment has prompted me to reflect deeply on what we are constructing as a family.

The Power of Family: A Foundation for Life

Bringing a new life into the world is a deeply powerful experience. It’s an event that naturally prompts reflection on what we are building as a family. As I hold my daughter and think about her future, I can’t help but contemplate the kind of legacy we are creating. The desire to build a generational family has never felt more important.

Evolving Beliefs: From Faith to Family Legacy

I’ve always held a strong belief in God and the eternal nature of the family. These beliefs have been the foundation of my life, shaping my values and guiding my decisions. However, in recent years, my perspective has shifted in a way that has deepened my understanding and commitment to these principles. This shift has strengthened my resolve to build a generational family that not only survives but thrives and makes a lasting impact.

Why Strong Families Are Essential

I’ve come to realize that the family is not just an important part of life; it is the foundation upon which everything else is built. Strong families are the bedrock of a strong society. Much of the chaos, division, and hate that we see in the world today could be alleviated if more people had access to the love and support that a strong family provides. Families are where values are instilled, where the next generation learns what is right and wrong, and where they are equipped with the tools to face the world. This is why I am so passionate about the mission to build a generational family.

Connecting Family and Business: The Importance of Systems

This realization is not just theoretical for me; it’s deeply connected to my work. I help business owners create systems and build teams that allow them to keep and grow their wealth. Over the years, I’ve seen too many business owners who are extraordinary at making money but fall short when it comes to building lasting wealth. The primary reason? They don’t have the necessary systems and teams in place. This lack often results in many business owners ending their careers with far less wealth than they had hoped or dreamed. Just as in business, to build a generational family, systems and intentionality are crucial.

Building Wealth: A Lesson in Family Planning

If business owners want to improve their chances of achieving financial independence, they need to do things differently. They need to create wealth systems and build teams that can support and sustain their wealth over time. The same principle applies when you want to build a generational family.

Creating a Generational Family: Systems and Vision

If we want to build a generational family—one that remembers the past, builds on the future, and leaves the next generation on higher ground—we cannot simply do what every other family does. We must be intentional in how we build our family’s foundation.

Teaching Excellence: The Role of Family Systems

Building a generational family requires creating family systems that teach our children what excellence looks like in every aspect of life. We need to teach them about the past, so they understand where they come from and the legacy they are a part of. We need to give them a vision for the future, so they know what is being built and feel empowered to be a part of that creation.

A New Perspective on Parenting and Business

This perspective has transformed the way I parent, the relationships I have with my children, and the way I approach my business. For me, I’m not just building a business—I’m building a family that will be world changers for generations to come. Every decision I make, whether in my business or at home, is made with this long-term vision in mind.

Change the World by Changing Your Family

If you want to change the world, start by changing your family. Use your wealth to unlock your family’s potential to become generational changemakers. The impact of a strong family, one that is built with intention and purpose, is immeasurable. It’s a legacy that extends far beyond our lifetime and has the power to influence the world for generations.

As I look at my daughter, I am reminded that the work we do as parents and as leaders is not just about today; it’s about building something that will last. It’s about creating a family that not only survives but thrives, grows, and makes a difference in the world.